The Fit Counts

Today I was visiting with a woman that I often see and she exclaimed how great I looked. She couldn't believe how much more weight I had lost......I was thinking to myself, I really haven't lost much weight since the first of the year so why all of a sudden did she notice?
Looking back over the past month I was trying to decide what was different that at other times I had seen this woman as opposed to today and even yesterday? Well the only difference I can come up with is clothing. Yesterday and today I was wearing clothing that was actually my current size and not a size or sizes too big....hummm. Both outfits fit me nicely and didn't pull tight, or hang baggy on my body.
What a great lesson on there is nothing like the right fit of your clothing to make you look slimmer.
I think we often hide behind our clothing, letting it be a bit baggy. We don't want things to be too tight, but I also think if anything we will go a 1/2 size or more up in our clotting and purchase things that hang away from our bodies, so that we can mask our real shapes. Instead all we are doing is adding poundage.....I guess a good fit really does count.
.......food for thought.
MCC

Wow, What a Book

I don't often finish a book and want to re-read it....but that is exactly what I have done after my first reading of Remembering Isaac, The Wise and Joyful Potter of Niederbipp by Ben Behunin. Of course I am also reading the next book in the series, Discovering Isaac....... I had better read quickly since the third and final book in the series is supposed to be released in July 2010.... I will probably read them all several times....YES, I find/am finding them that good.
Remembering Isaac was on my reading list and in my reading pile, but I had several other books stacked in front of it. When it was chosen for our neighborhood book club selection for May I thought I will get to it, and hopefully through most of it by book club.....there are months when I haven't even read the book by club time, the discussion isn't as good, but I always read them eventually...... However when the May hostess said that she had invited the author to come and speak with us I thought I had better move that book forward and put a little more time into my reading and finish of the book. I am so glad that did.
The lessons taught in this book are so powerful. They are truths that we all know and want to model our lives after. Without giving it all away it is simple to say that through a back door approach we are all taught how to be like Jesus, to be better Chirtians. After listening to author Ben Behunin speak I can tell that he lives these truths, is part of the stories, the people and the experiences he writes about. Ben is a Potter by trade and an author because he had the stories to tell and out of necessity needed to do something else for a bit.....truly God may close a door, but he opens a window.
At book club Ben didn't discuss the book necessarily, but he told his story and how come the book came to be....In his telling I could hear the voices of the people from Niederbipp that he wrote about and I understood better the man behind the book and why he had to write it.
One of the truths that came to me while he was speaking was that we all can receive inspiration through the Holy Ghost if we would be still, listen then act. Another truth that came to me while reading the book is that the best parts of life are found in the simple, small things. This Book has also inspired me to re-think and examine me; to think more about what and who I really want to be and then to have the courage to jump in with both feet and do it.....of course while applying the principles taught in the New Testament and this book.
I could tell you Ben Behunin's story but that you can discover most of it in the books......However I will be more than happy to share the other stuff I learned about him if you will read the books and then discuss them with me.... I think that you will really enjoy them if you haven't already read them.
And if you every have an opportunity to hear Ben Behunin speak or see him at Costco you should take a listen. He also has a Pottery shop where he sells his beautiful pottery........I may just have to go for a visit and to buy....and maybe he will share some of his wisdom.

MCC

Stuff

I am behind this week due to the face thing...which by the way has improved significantly.

So here is the Weigh In....I am going down very, very slowly...these last 40 lbs. might be the death of me. I now need toning more than ever. My skin is flabby and muscles seem very week.....where is the magic skin my boys talked about as little boys? We kicked it up a bit at the gym this week and decided that besides walking we would do a more intense gym work out as well...intense for me is most likely a normal persons beginning workout.....hey, I am trying.
I still need to eat better and get more water into me every day.
The problems with eating better is that nothing sounds appealing to me...so you are thinking then the weight should be falling off, not. Just because it isn't what I would choose to eat doesn't mean I won't eat something, anything to find that perfect food to fill the void. Also coming up with what to eat and then having to make it and clean up after myself is just not fun to think about. I made up my mind today that I was going to make the weekly menu and follow through. i am going to make what is on the plan even if I don't want to and it doesn't sound appealing....I know pretty grown up of me. I hope this new resolve works out.

As for the painting project...it too is coming along very, very slowly....I have about half of it done if I stop and don't do any decorative painting...which is something, the decorative painting, I really would like to do IF I can do it perfectly...so in other words it probably won't happen and I can officially say I am half way done with the painting....now what to do with all the stuff /furniture/junk/etc....that is sitting in the center of the room. I have other stuff I want to load the room up with.....maybe a garage sale?

The rest: The garden is looking good, the rest of the yard is not....too much rain and cold to work out side. The other projects are just someday projects for the moment.....making a ton to do this summer. At least I have projects/work to look forward to on top of the rest of my daily jobs...oh well as they say no rest for the ...wicked or weary.
MCC

Mother's/Grandmother's Day

Captain Awesome with his mommy at the theatre talking to Uncle Nelson
Working with mommy at the Movie Theatre...just like his dad did at his age.

Grandma Marcie and her boy, Captain A!

My first Mother's Day as a Grandma

Mother's Day was eventful for the Call's. The long awaited Missionary phone call to Mom took place on Saturday.....and the traveling call went off as planned with out a hitch.....we even had a few unexpected hellos form other family members. According to Elder Call's letter he thought only my family would do this when we told him what was going to happen.... At our first stop he not only got to speak with Megan and Grandpa Lyle and Grandma Sheri, but he also got a hello from Aunt Angela and cousins Preston, Laila, Jenna, Landon Addison and his girlfriend Bree. The 20 minutes for Mom and Dad alone were great. At the Theatre we arrived to a big film mess....of course there was a problem, making int difficult for the brothers to talk with him, but they did eventually speak with him. Captain Awesome squawked at the phone(that is his latest form of communication he makes a squawk that sounds like a large bird or what we think a dinosaur would have sounded like). J, L and hay all got a a few quick minutes as did Grandpa Bill and Grandma Mary. We had been on the phone for about an hour and he had to go to church but he said let me talk to my mom. I wondered if it was something confidential, but he said no he just wanted to make sure that I felt like I had had enough time with him on the phone since it was the mother's day phone call. Overall he sounded happy. From what we got out of him he is a great missionary who is willing to work hard and do what is asked of him.

Sunday was also a nice day...we had dinner with the family and visited with Grandma's Mary and Sheri, wishing them a happy day.

Life is always changing, even when it seems to be the same from day to day. After 28 years of being a mother I think that it's good to be a mother/grandmother!
MCC

All Is Well

No I have not gone missing nor am I down for the count......
Monday was very busy and Tuesday I woke up with a swollen gland on the left side of my face....it got a bit bigger as the day progresses. I looked like I was carrying a baseball in my cheek...a lot like most people look when they get their wisdom teeth out.....
I had a visit with the Doctor and got an antibiotic. they also drew lots of blood for tests to try to figure out what is wrong. The whole thing was making me cranky and tired so i just went to bed early on Tuesday.
This morning the antibiotics kicked in the swelling is reducing i looked like I had a golf ball in my cheek and now the gland that was very hard to the touch is also softening.....Yeah for me.
The only thing that is making me slightly concerned right now is that I have swollen gums on the lower left side of my mouth....hopefully it is nothing.....
MCC

Motherhood Is A Wild Ride

It's Mother's Day Weekend, it is a crazy weekend at best. Not only is it Mother's Day, but it is my Mom's Birthday and the last big Call from Elder Call in NZ.

There is so much to do and so many places to be and people to see that I just want to scream......in a good way.

We will be celebrating 2 moms/grandmas, a daughter in law and hopefully me, as moms.

We need to celebrate mom's birthday...and she is so hard to gift. She told me she was going to send me a list, but I have yet to see it. If it were up to me I would give her the world, since that is what she has given me. So what to do now?

The Missionary call home is much anticipated, however the scheduling brought tears.....and not selfish tears. Elder Call said he needed to do it on Saturday at 1:30( Sunday Morning for him. On his Monday he will be doing a Zone Conference) ..... No, not Saturday, we are so busy!......the tears I shed were for his sibs who I knew were very busy and committed on Saturday and wouldn't be able to speak with him when he called home.......that is until my answer man Gary said let's have him call my cell phone and we can take the call on the road. So we have now created a wild Saturday afternoon for us......Megan and Grandma Sheri have a show that begins at 2:00pm, so we are going over to their performance place to wait for the call . We have told Grandpa Lyle to meat us there too if he would like to talk with the missionary. They will each have a few minutes. Then it is off to Kaysville where Hay, J, L and Captain A will be working at the Theatre......My turn to talk comes while on the road to Kaysville.....this will be nice with just 3 of us talking and listening. We have told Bill and Mary to come down and join us if they want to talk with him.....So what should and could be a pleasant Saturday is now a big run around.

And those are just the major things that need doing this weekend...there is still Gary 's stuff to do, the painting, the yard, the cards, the crafts, etc......

Being a Mother is one wild crazy ride.

Happy Mother's Day to All of the great mothers that I love and look up to (the Sisters, Aunties, Cousins and Friends included). You make mothering look so easy.

....and happy M-Day to me too....maybe I'll go buy myself the earrings I saw on sale at Macy's......that will be a nice way to wrap up a wild Saturday.

MCC

Cleaning Day

I am so glad that the maid showed up today...however she is pooped (and sore since she is also the painter and boy the celling is making her arms hurt).
MCC

Biography stuff or junk?

With the out of control painting project, several other projects become a necessity........ I am currently working through the cleaning stuff out and getting rid of project.

Today's ? as I work is......

Why do we keep so much stuff? Last night on How I Met Your Mother, I laughed when Ted brought out the "For my Biographer Box." What a kick I thought. Today looking at my things and stuff today that is exactly what all the boxes I have hanging around really are; the scraps that may or may not give a biographer an insight to who I am.
While going through some of the boxes I came to the conclusion that no one would really know me from the stuff I stored. All you can really tell about me from the stuff in the boxes is that I keep meaningless pieces of paper, I am a pack rat who boxes up old envelops, bills etc....usually to hid away while cleaning up for an event (I clean up for events really well). That I have good intentions of creating scrapbooks for my kids full of certificates, childhood art work, report cards, etc...... As a biographers treasure map to who I am, most of the stuff I keep boxing up would be pointless.....Why have I kept any of it? For the most part no one would care about it. All it really is, is a fire hazard and stuff your kids or grand kids will most likely trash when you are gone.

So out with the garbage, and the things and stuff that are meaningless......(unfortunately I will probably replace it with the next 10 years of crap.....am I a mini hoarder?)

To my posterity in many, many, many years to come: Please no complaints that I (Memaw Marcie) didn't keep any 'cool' stuff, school papers, old bills, or bits and pieces that validate that I existed, but really don't tell you who I am/was. You all should thank me for trashing a lot of meaningless stuff; stuff that doesn't really give you any idea of who I was, how I thought or what I loved.

To me today....PLEASE stop saving crap, junk, bits and pieces of stuff that is worthless, and will still be worthless in the many, many, many years to come. Please don't keep it unless it can tell a biographer who I was, what I thought and what I loved.

....good intentions!?!?!?!
MCC

the babies

Here is a quick look at the Call family babies......Captain A and Uncle Hay.

Grandpa Gary & Captain Awesome

Uncle Hayden ready to go out the door to Prom

H and M (Meg is the baby girl so i guess she counts too), they are quite a pair of crazies......

MCC

Laurie

Happy Birthday Laurie!

We are so lucky to have Laurie as part of our family......Jordan done picked good.....
She is an excellent person, great wife, mother, daughter and friend.
She is so organized, and prepared....just what our family needs. As a mother she is a rock star.

Happy Birthday to a beautiful person.

MCC